It don’t matter if you’re black or white

I’m an Indian female living in South Africa, a country that was (and still is) rife with racism. If you look at me, I’m as Indian as they come. My hair is thick, dark and straight. My complexion is dark- my husband says I’m a coffee with a dash of milk 😉 and if I… Continue reading It don’t matter if you’re black or white

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Cheese and Wine, what could be better?

I’m quite a sociable person and I love having parties, especially birthday parties. It doesn’t even have to be my birthday, I just love celebrating birthdays. It’s a big day, the day to appreciate someone’s presence in my life. Last year I turned 33 and decided that I was officially an ‘adult’. So, being the… Continue reading Cheese and Wine, what could be better?

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Time, is it all a farce?

The title sounds deeps but don’t be fooled! Every Friday afternoon I’m convinced that time is an illusion and that our mind and the universe is playing tricks on us. How is that I when I look at the clock it’s been 3:00 for the past 5 hours??? But the weekend goes by in the… Continue reading Time, is it all a farce?

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If no one reads my writing am I actually a writer?

Everybody has a ‘thing’. Something that they’re known for or love or do or don’t do. Sometimes is something quirky, rare, unusual. Other times its common place activities or hobbies, everyday things that give people pleasure. My thing is reading. I like reading. ‘Like’ is actually an understatement of note. I love reading, I live… Continue reading If no one reads my writing am I actually a writer?

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- Post 2 of a million

Following on my post from yesterday, it got me thinking about how I coped with my feelings of inadequacy over the years and looking back I did what a lot of women do, I armed myself. Not with knives or guns of course, that would’ve just been asking for trouble… But with make up and… Continue reading Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- Post 2 of a million

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Body Image and the far reaching consequences- Post 1 of a million

Its only 9:00 on a Wednesday morning and I’ve already went through highs and lows regarding my body and how I feel about it. This morning as my son and I are leaving for work he tells me ‘mum, you look big today’ and he giggles. Up until that moment I though I was looking… Continue reading Body Image and the far reaching consequences- Post 1 of a million

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My question has been answered

Blogging for me is like writing in a diary except it’s for the whole world to see! The whole world except people who know me, lol. I know, it’s weird, but I don’t tell any family or friends where to find my blog, mostly because I use this platform to bitch and moan about my… Continue reading My question has been answered

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